Words have incredible power to bring both life and death into our lives, as stated in Proverbs 18:21. The impact of our words goes far beyond just emotional effects - they can actually influence us psychologically and physiologically.
How Do Negative Words Impact Us?
Negative words can:
Increase stress and anxiety by triggering the brain's fear center.
Lower self-esteem and create negative self-image
Reinforce negative thought patters
Impair cognitive function and logical reasoning
Cause emotional distress and negative emotions
rigger harmful hormonal changes
Disrupt normal brain function
Why Do People Speak Negative Words?
There are several common reasons people may speak negative words over others:
Fear of being upstaged - They want to keep others in their shadow.
Making others feel insignificant - Attempting to diminish someone's God-given potential
Attacking perceived weaknesses - Often projecting their own insecurities
Making accusations to discredit - Trying to diminish someone's accomplishments or calling
How Should We Respond to Negative Words?
The biblical example of David provides two key responses:
Turn away from negativity - Physically and emotionally distance yourself from harmful words.
Wait for the right timing - Don't engage every battle; wait for God's invitation
Who Should We Let Speak Into Our Lives?
The best people to receive words from are those who:
Truly love you
Aren't overly impressed with you
Can provide constructive criticism
Have your best interests at heart
Life Application
This week, consider:
What negative words are you currently engaging with that have you fighting the wrong battles.
Are you speaking life or death to others around you?
Who have you given permission to speak into your life? Are they the right voices?
Challenge: Identify one negative word that has been spoken over you and actively work to replace it with truth. Additionally, make a conscious effort to speak words of life and encouragement to at least one person each day this week.
Remember: You have a God-given purpose that negative words cannot derail. Choose to engage with words that align with your calling rather than those that distract you from it.